Does Your Satisfaction Depend on Mutual Satisfaction

When you’re in a sexual relationship with someone – is it necessary that they be sexually satified – in order for you to be fully satisfied? Sure – its possible to have an orgasm, or maybe several without the other person reaching a climax. But, are you totally satisfied if they don’t reach an orgasm?

I’ve talked to a very good number of men who tell me (and I choose to believe them that they want to make the women they are with, reach orgasm and in many cases they want to look into her eyes as she comes. What woman doesn’t appreciate that?

So – can you be with a person sexually and be “satisfied” if they don’t climax? On the other hand, do you know how your partner would answer that question? If your partner isn’t concerned with you reaching a climax when you’re together — does that bother you??