Kissing Reminders

Some people tend to take kissing for granted or let kissing become routine with their partner. But, kissing is a great way to be intimate with your partner and to have some stimulating and positive interaction with one another. Every one likes something a little different when they kiss – but these are some basics that will apply to just about everyone.

• Taste and smell your lipstick, lip gloss or chapstick. There are many flavors of lip gloss and chapstick – does your partner have a favorite.
• Include other parts of your body to enhance your kissing. Use your hands, arms, legs, etc. You can start by running your hand or fingers up your partner’s arm or leg. Maybe you want to slide your hand behind his or her neck and you can run your fingers through their hair.
• Lick your lips and press them together before kissing – this will soften, warm and moisten them. Dry lips aren’t sexy or sensuous.
• Most people close their eyes when they kiss, so its good to close your eyes. However, sometimes it is nice to open your eyes and look at each other a bit.
• Kiss other parts of the body. Definitely don’t limit your kissing to just the lips – there are many other areas of the body that you will enjoy kissing. For a wealth of suggestions, download my free ebook http://myfreeinformationarticles.com/kissing-head-to-toe/.
• Kissing is important in helping you maintain a healthy, loving relationship. There are a good number of couples who stop kissing – this is the first red flag that you are drifting apart. Make it a priority to kiss your partner at least once a day – and make it a real kiss, not just a quick kiss in passing.
• Incorporate kissing into your day – pecks on the cheek to say hello, a longer kiss when you leave for work, a warm kiss when you get home and tender, sensual kissing at bedtime.
• Kissing can be playful – some options are rubbing noses. quick kisses on the cheek or hand. These kisses can be almost anywhere on the body, but keep it fun and enjoyable for you and your partner. Laugh and giggle while you’re kissing, laugh with your partner, but never let it seem like you’re laughing at your partner.
• Did you know the tongue is a very sensual organ of the body? There are many touch and taste sensations in the tongue. Use those intense and plentiful sensations to enhance your kissing experiences.
• Giggle and laugh while kissing. Enjoy yourselves.

Do you have some favorite tips that you’d like to share? Feel free to include them in the comments below.

Kissing Class

For a sneak peek into some of the information in the kissing course from Loveology University – watch Dr Ava on The Doctors in this video clip

http://www.thedoctorstv.com/main/home_page?init_type=Feature&init_id=3242

Here are some details from the Kissing Course – (in California you can earn CEUs with this course)

• What Kissing Is
• Kinds of Kisses
• History of Kissing
• Myths of Kissing
• Preparing for the Kiss
• The Art of Kissing
• Kissing Rules
• What Can be Kissed
• Kissing Targets
• G-Love
• Where to Sneak a Kiss
• Kissing – How To
• Tantra Kisses
• Kissing Positions
• Kissing All Five Senses
• Kissing Boundaries
• Healing Kisses
• Kissing Fears
• Kiss-ercise
• Kissing Games
• Kissing Concerns
• Orgasmic Kissing
• Kissing with Piercing
• The Hickey Kiss
• Kissing Crimes
• Kissing the Genitals

and more……

These are some of the things covered in the course — and the homework is wonderful

This Course Is For You If:

• You want to Learn the Art of Tantric Kissing
• You want to Discover What Can and Should be Kissed
• You want to Become Skilled at Kissing Positions
• You want to Know the Secret to Orgasmic Kissing

Welcome to Loveology University’s Kissing Certification Course. Inside you will learn everything you ever wanted to know about the most intimate act of kissing. There’s a lot more to kissing than two lips meeting and by the end of this course, you’ll be an expert on the history of kissing, the latest scientific research, dozens of sexy kissing tips and techniques, games, positions, places to kiss and you’ll discover what your kissing style says about you. Now pucker up for the ultimate kissing experience.

More Details About Becoming a Certified Kisser -

https://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=23

Where Do People Like to Be Kissed

I did an informal poll to see where people in my network – like to be kissed. I’m working on a post with all kinds of suggestions — but here are what my friends had to say —

Kissing, Licking & Sucking the Toes 3%

Kissing, Licking the Inner Thighs 4%

Kissing, Licking & Sucking the Elbow 4%

Kissing the Knee and Behind the Knee 4%

Kissing, Licking & Sucking the Fingers 4%

Kissing, Licking & Sucking the Ears, the Earlobes and Around the Ears 5%

Kissing the Wrist 5%

Kissing, Licking, Sucking on the Chest 6%

Kissing, Licking & Sucking on the Shoulder and Collarbone 6%

Kissing, Licking and Sucking Along and Below the Jaw 7%

Kissing, Licking the Small of the Back and Along the Spine 7%

Kissing, Licking and Sucking Any Area of the Neck 22%

Kissing, Licking and Sucking the Male or Female Genital Areas 23%

What areas do you think should be added?

Enrich Your Intimate Relationship

I have taken a lot of courses through Loveology University – but one of my favorite was on Intimacy in your relationship. One reason is because having true intimacy in your relationship really does take you and your partner to a whole different level of closeness. Another reason is because so few couples seem to have real intimacy – I’m not talking about just having sex – intimacy is much more than that.

These are a couple of the reasons why I really enjoyed the course on Couples Enrichment. It includes information about the foundation and cornerstones of a great and lasting relationship. These include:

Topics to Lay the Foundation For Your Relationship

• Communication
• Kissing
• Love

Topics As the Relationship Deepens

• Seduction
• Intimacy
• Erotic Massage
• Sexual Fantasies
• Erotic Talk
• Pleasing a Man
• Pleasing a Woman
• Oral Sex
• Sexual Positions
• Tantric Sex
• Orgasm

Each of these are topics that will deepen and strengthen your relationship and contribute to the level of true intimacy and satisfaction for you and your partner.

What Enrichment Means -

• An improvement in communication, intimacy and sexuality.
• It has all the ingredients of true love; friendship, respect, trust, communication and passion

The Key Ingredients to a Deeper and More Loving Relationship

• Friendship
• Respect
• Trust
• Communication
• Passion
• Foregiveness

One exercise in this course includes these 3 questions. How would you answer these questions?

1. List 3 strengths in your relationships
2. List 3 weaknesses in your relationships
3. What can you do to be more in love with one another?

There are many short exercises which give you and your partner the opportunity to look deeper into your relationship and find ways to be closer. Many couples will never have the kind of true intimacy that will elevate their relationship to a much higher and more satisfying level. It does take effort, but isn’t your most important relationship worth the effort? This is a very small sample of the information contained in this course. This course is great for new relationships and it is also great for long term relationships that need a boost. Would you like to get that initial passion and closeness back that you and your partner had in the beginning? This course is for you

For more information, visit http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=37

Loveology University also offers individual courses on each of the topics in this course – in much more detail. The complete list of courses, including the Certified Romantic course is located here – http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/CourseCatalogue.aspx

This Course Is For You If:

• You want to Re-ignite the Hot Passion in Your Relationship
• You want to Win the Undying Love and Devotion of Your Partner
• You want to Make Love Longer Than You Ever Believed Possible
• You want to Discover the Rewards of Intimacy with Sex

Welcome to Loveology University’s Couples Enrichment Certification Course. Inside are exercises guaranteed to improve your communication, enhance your love life and expand your sexual horizon. When a couple has been together for any length of time, they often take each other for granted so this course will help you to fall back in love again. Beginning with the forgiveness process if there is any resentment or animosity pending, followed by praising each other and giving compliments to restore the foundation your relationship was built on. Touching is a big part of this course so you’ll learn the various kinds of touches ranging from healing, romantic, seductive, sexual to erotic. As the course progresses, the exercises become more intense and exciting with mutual masturbation, erotic talk, sensual massage, oral sex, sexual positions all resulting in multiple orgasm for both of you.

Course Price: $69.95 (Includes Video)

For more information, visit http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=37

Give Special Attention to Your Partner’s Arms and Legs by Kissing Them

Over the last couple of weeks, I’ve share a couple of articles about the art of kissing. The first was kissing the head, neck and face area – http://lovecoachjourney.wordpress.com/2010/05/09/kiss-your-partners-face-and-neck/ and the second was kissing the back and the chest – the torso area – http://lovecoachjourney.wordpress.com/2010/05/30/how-many-places-can-you-kiss-on-your-partners-body/. Now lets move to the hands and arms. That may not sound exciting, but just wait

Let’s start with the forearm and work our  way to the fingertips. You can gently caress the forearm with your hands and your lips. Feather light kisses on this area are very stimulating. Hold your partners hand and turn the arm to give you easy access to the forearm. You may choose to kiss or lightly suck on his or her elbow.

While you’re holding their hand, slowly and passionately kiss the wrist and maybe include some small nibbles on the sensitive skin on the inside of the wrist. Let your tongue slide down onto their palm, before you kiss and suck on the palm, making lazy circles with the tip of your tongue.  Do you remember in high school where your young love would tickle the palm of your hand to tell you what they wanted to do to you? Remember how good that felt? Doing the same thing with your tongue is even better…

Now – you’re to the fingers. Gently kiss the fingers and suck each one separately. Use your hand to spread the fingers wide – and the next thing you should do, is determined by whether your lover is a man or a woman. For a man, take his fingers into your mouth and suck each one just like you would do when giving him oral sex. Any technique you would use in oral sex can be used on his hand and watch how turned on he becomes. Now, to kiss her hand. You want to spread her fingers apart and then kiss between her fingers – tickling this area with your tongue. Treat her hand just like you would kiss her during oral sex. Are you wondering if that will actually work? Give it a try and use as much enthusiasm as you would if it was oral sex – and you let me know if your partner enjoys it.

While we’re talking about the hands and arms, let’s move down to the feet. Do you like to have your toes sucked? If you haven’t tried it before – you should try it now. Clean your feet very well and have your partner massage your feet with their hands and then kiss your feet, your ankles, and your toes. I will warn you to be careful and adjust your touch based on how ticklish they are, with a little practice you can get the touch right for your partner.

Now move to your partner’s calves – again, it is wonderful to massage the calves and then follow your hands with your mouth, lips and tongue. Try different touches and watch your lover’s reactions. When you find things they enjoy, do those things again.  That applies to anything you do – anywhere on their body. Move up to the knee and you can kiss the kiss, maybe suck gently behind their knee and maybe some small nibbles around the knee.

This leads perfectly into moving your way up the thigh. You can kiss the front, the back and the side of your lovers thighs. Kiss, lick, suck and nibble your way around the thigh. As you move to the inner thigh – remember the inner thigh is much more sensitive. You can kiss your lover’s thigh with them standing to give you full access, with them lying on their back to let you kiss the front and sides of their thighs or you can roll them over – so you can kiss the back and inside of their thighs. If you have them lie on their stomach – they won’t see what you’re doing and this can add some great sensations as you work your way up their leg with your mouth.

Move carefully, use every trick with your mouth, your lips and your tongue that you’ve mastered and work your lover into a frenzy…

How Many Places Can You Kiss on Your Partner’s Body

Recently I wrote a post about kissing your lover’s head, neck and face – you can read it here – http://lovecoachjourney.wordpress.com/2010/05/09/kiss-your-partners-face-and-neck/. Tonight let’s move a little lower…  Hmmm – time for more kissing…..

We’ve covered kissing the jaw, the neck, the face and most definitely the mouth. Now – let’s move around to the back.

Back and Shoulders – When you’re behind your lover, you can kiss them on the back of the neck, behind the ears, on the shoulders, and between the shoulder blades. Many great areas to kiss lightly, play on their skin with the tip of your tongue, run your tongue down their back to send a great rush along their spine. The lower you kiss and nibble – the more seductive your touch will become.

Once you’ve covered their shoulders and back with kisses – turn your lover around and start all over again on their chest. Kissing their chest is great for a man or a woman. You can start under the jaw and come down their neck first, maybe slide your tongue over to play with an earlobe and if you want to move your hands to their chest as your mouth is busy on their neck – I don’t think they will mind. Once you have given them chills by working their neck with your lips and tongue – let’s move the mouth lower.

Flicking your tongue across and around your lover’s nipples is very nice – for a man or a woman. Keep in mind that some people have very sensitive nipples – so watch their reactions to see how much pressure feels good, especially when you suck their nipples. There are also some times when nipples and breasts are more sensitive – so don’t think you can use the same pressure all the time. I’ve also noticed that the intensity of kissing and sucking that feels good can depend on how aroused the person is — always watch and listen to your lover’s reactions to see if its too gentle, too hard or just right.

On your lady’s chest and around her breasts – don’t limit yourself to the nipples. What about under her breast, around the side, around the nipple – you will find various areas that are sensitive. Use your fingers, your hands, your tongue and mouth to find each and every one of these areas. Remember the human body has many erogenous zones – how many can you find?

While you’re in this area, move your mouth under your lover’s arm – it may be ticklish, but you should also find areas that will turn her on. The parts of the underarm that you want to kiss and play with can depend on many things – but I just wanted to suggest that you give it a try.

Your Lover’s Stomach & Belly Button - You can kiss your lover’s chest as you move lower. Feel free to play with their breasts with your hands as you kiss their chest, moving closer to the belly button. What about running your tongue around the rim of their belly button – maybe dipping your tongue inside — that will be good practice for later. When you play with their belly button with your tongue, get creative. You can vary the stroke of your tongue. Have you ever used your tongue to “write” the alphabet across and around their belly button? Hmm, its good practice – we’re going to use that technique again later. Its always good to build up those muscles in your tongue On your lovers stomach, you can play with your tongue and make letters and/or shapes on their stomach. You can kiss their stomach and playfully nibble them as you move to the sides or as you move lower. But keep it interesting and add some variety.

Just about all of the areas in this post are places where your lover may not be able to watch you — so you will have the ability to surprise them – especially on their back and neck and as you move lower on their stomach. You can use this to make it even more erotic, seductive and enjoyable for your lover.

The most important things are to be enthusiastic, be creative, use plenty of variety and have fun

Kiss Your Partner’s Face and Neck

I have to admit that I love kissing – deep kisses that take your breath away kissing. So – the idea of writing a couple of articles about the many places on the body and the ways to kiss those areas is very appealing to me. This is the first of those articles.

These were the results of an informal survey that I did about where people like to be kissed -these are the areas that we’ll discuss in this post -

• Kissing, Licking & Sucking the Ears, the Earlobes and Around the Ears 5%
• Kissing, Licking & Sucking Along and Below the Jaw 7%
• Kissing, Licking and Sucking Any Area of the Neck 22%

I’m going to save the kissing of the arms and legs and the more intimate areas for another post. I should mention that in my poll, kissing the neck was the second favor spot.

The Neck – Let’s definitely start with the neck. The back of the neck along the hairline, the side of the neck starting just below the earlobe, the front of the neck where you can feel your lover’s heartbeat as your kiss them — this is definitely a great place to start kissing. A number of women mentioned they turn to jello in their man’s hands when he kisses her neck. Definitely a great place to start, whether you’re lying next to each other or you come up behind her when she’s cooking or washing dishes. How about coming up behind her as she’s washing dishes and reach around her waist as you kiss her neck? I bet the dishwater will get cold while things heat up for you. You can kiss the neck, trace your tongue along various parts of the neck, and some people want to leave a mark on their lover by creating a hickey by sucking on their neck. That is totally up to the two of you.

The Ears - Let’s move to the ears – maybe start by sucking the earlobe, play with your tongue just inside the ear (but do this quietly so that it doesn’t turn the person off), trace your tongue along the outer edge of the ear. The ear is also a wonderful spot to nibble – not biting or anything rough (unless that’s what you both want), but tantalizing nibbling can be a lot of fun and very stimulating.

The Top of the Head and The Hair - How about kissing the top of the head and the person’s hair? What about kissing the top of their head when they are bald? Maybe leaving the faint trace of your lipstick on his head or kissing her along the hairline.

Eyebrows – Have you considered kissing your lovers eyebrows? Tracing them with your tongue and tickling that spot above the nose and between the eyebrows.

The Nose - This isn’t just for Eskimos.  Have you kissed your lover’s nose? Planting a tender kiss on the tip of their nose and looking deep into their eyes while kissing them. Or, give them a simple Eskimo kiss to let them know you want to heat things up or maybe have some adult play in the snow on a crisp winter day.

The Cheeks - The cheeks on your partner’s face – we’ll talk about the other cheeks later This can be an innocent peck on the cheek or a playful kiss. You can also start with a peck on the cheek and move to the ear or the neck – lots of possibilities.

The Mouth - Hmmmm, notice I didn’t start with the mouth. It can be so much more fun to work your way to your lover’s mouth. Kissing the neck, nibble the jaw, suck their earlobe and leave them gasping or moaning by the time you reach their mouth. There are so many options when kissing the mouth, its hard to know where to start. You can have your mouth open or closed, you can use your tongue or not, you can alternate these things just for a little variety. What about kissing with your mouth open and exchanging breath with your partner in the final moments before you climax? Haven’t tried that? You should!

Here are a few tips to a great kiss – but include plenty of spontaneity and simply see where the moment leads you…..

• Take your partner’s face in your hands and move closer – start with gentle kisses around the face
• With your mouth slightly open, kiss their lips – no tongue at this point – start gentle and tender
• Your partner will signal when he/she is ready for your tongue, usually by opening their mouth more or touching your lips with their tongue – always be aware of how your partner is reacting to the things you do
• You can trace their lips with your tongue – and you can see if they “let you in”
• At some point in the kiss, it can be enjoyable to gently suck their lip or some people prefer to suck their lover’s tongue, similar to the way you would during oral sex. Wrap your lips around their tongue and suck it passionately – its a great sensation.
• Kisses are good when they are hot and wet – this doesn’t mean sloppy wet (unless that is your preference), but definitely not dry. I’ve only kissed one man with a dry mouth – and only on one date. There are reasons for that
• For some different sensations, drink something hot or cold, suck on an ice cube, suck on a peppermint or something similar to give your partner a different taste and feel as you kiss them.

That’s a good start. What body parts will be next? You’ll have to check back and see.

So – what did I miss? What tips or locations would you add around the head and neck? Let’s stay in that area for now and will move to another part of the body next.

To see more about the kissing certification course I took for my love coach training, visit this page – http://lovecoachjourney.wordpress.com/2010/02/21/kissing-certification-from-loveology-university/

Are You Experienced in the Art of Kissing

The Proper Way to Kiss

For many years, guys and gals growing up getting their sex cues from Hollywood romances didn’t have a clue about how to kiss. That changed with more realistic kisses coming to the movies, but now the pendulum has gone beyond that point with most movie kisses looking like the two combatants are consuming each other for lunch.

This has caused more than a few folks to fail to understand how a kiss should work, and what methods might be employed to arouse the ardor in a lover with a simple kiss.

Unlike today’s movies, you shouldn’t jump into your lover’s mouth like a high-speed chase through a tunnel. Instead, build her anticipation by kissing all around her face. Begin your kiss slowly and gently with emotion and sensitivity.

First, kiss without using your tongue, slightly open mouthed, with sweet breath. Only after this initial modest kiss should you start to get serious, and only when your lover indicates that she’s ready for more (usually by using her tongue or by opening her mouth more widely to invite your tongue in).

From this point, there are a variety of ways you can continue this interplay:

• Take your lover’s bottom lip between the two of yours and suck gently.

• Trace the outline of your lover’s lips with the tip of your tongue.

• While kissing, lick you lover’s teeth with your tongue.

• To increase sexual excitement, make your kiss wet.

• Wrap your lips around your lover’s tongue and suck passionately.

• Use hot or cold liquids to create erotic sensations.

• Kissing her eyelids and ears.

The key to success in all this is to go slowly, and to keep things modest especially with the first few kisses. Be sure to follow your lover’s kissing techniques and emulate them. Little by little the two of you will learn what works best.

Then put your knowledge to good use, bringing her slowly closer to consummating your encounter.

This is an excerpt from the Loveologist Guide to Cheating by Dr Ava Cadell- it is packed with details about cheating and also many ways to please your man or please your woman and ways to improve your relationship – to recover from cheating or to prevent the desire to cheat.

http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/DrAvaPages/luguide-cheating.html

Foreplay Certification

I’m one step closer to finishing my certification at Loveology University. I think great foreplay is an art form and not everyone knows how to do it right. But that is true about many aspects of sex S0 – what do you think is included in the foreplay course? These are some of the topics —

• What Foreplay Is & Isn’t

• Communicating Foreplay Needs

• Foreplay Do’s and Don’ts

• Anticipation

• Touch

• What is the difference between Flirting and Foreplay?

• Undressing

• Physiology of an Orgasm

• Outercourse

• Kissing the Genitals

• Fantasy and Foreplay

• Foreplay Fun Around the Home

Foreplay can include so many things – a look, a touch, a kiss, but it does not include intercourse. So you can think of it as an appetizer. It gets the mind and body ready for sex — it is true there are times when you don’t feel you need foreplay, like before a quickie. But many times foreplay is a great way to get the juices flowing – for both partners.

The list of foreplay possibilities is huge – but you can think of it as anything you do with your partner as a lead up to sex – kissing, cuddling, stripping, massage, sucking, stroking, rubbing, licking, flirting, moaning, and so much more.

We’re all familiar with traditional foreplay, but what about Millenium Foreplay? It includes – so much more including, kissing, erotic talk, erotic massage, oral sex, mutual masturbation, sharing sexual fantasies and all the LU courses that lead up to sexual positions with penetration.

Communication is critical in all aspects of a relationship – including sex. Learn to communicate your foreplay needs, just like you should communicate your sexual and all other needs. Its hard to please someone when you don’t know what they want or need.

This course includes wonderful tips, suggestions, do’s, don’ts, and much more to help you understand and utilize foreplay more effectively. I was looking through the course contents and wondering how long it would take to try even half of the things in here.

For more details about this course – visit

https://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=34&a_aid=litekepr

Foreplay

This Course Is For You If: You want to Learn Foreplay Techniques to Use on a Woman You want to Learn Foreplay Techniques to Use on a Man You want to Turn Foreplay into Adult Play You want to Make Foreplay an Orgasmic Experience Welcome to Loveology University’s Foreplay Certification Course. Inside you will learn all about the basics of foreplay such as why it is so important when it comes to initimacy and sex, the different physiological responses in men and women and plenty of creative foreplay techniques. Foreplay isn’t just a prelude to sex, but a process that helps to warm up the mind and body for what is to come. It can be a conversation, a little trinket, a look, a touch, or a kiss. Foreplay can be a main event, especially when you engage all of your senses, and a romantic memory for years to come. This course offers you many varieties of foreplay to choose from so that you will be a master lover. This Foreplay Course is sure to get your juices flowing and put you in the mood for an unforgettable learning experience. Course Price: $69.95 (Includes Video)

Kissing Certification From Loveology University

I’ve been wanting to take this course and I had a couple of people insist they would give me a recommendation if needed But, I’m tickled to say that I just passed the Kissing Certification test – with 24 right out of 25. Many great tips in the course, but one of the most fun was that you can burn 26 calories from heavy kissing for 60 seconds. Sounds like a popular exercise program?

These are some of the things covered in the course — and the homework is wonderful

• Kinds of Kisses

• History of Kissing

• Preparing for the Kiss

• The Art of Kissing

• Kissing Rules

• What Can Be Kissed

• Where to Sneak a Kiss

• Kissing: How To

• What is Tantra  & Tantric Kisses

• Kissing Positions

• Kissing with all Five Senses

• Kissing Boundaries

• Kissing Fears

• Kiss-ercise

• Kissing Related to Relationships

• Kissing Pros and Cons

• Orgasmic Kissing

• Kissing with Piercings

• The Hickey Kiss

• Kissing the Genitals

• Oral Sex for Him  & Oral Sex for Her

• Kissing Concerns

This Course Is For You If:

• You want to Learn the Art of Tantric Kissing
• You want to Discover What Can and Should be Kissed
• You want to Become Skilled at Kissing Positions
• You want to Know the Secret to Orgasmic Kissing

Welcome to Loveology University’s Kissing Certification Course. Inside you will learn everything you ever wanted to know about the most intimate act of kissing. There’s a lot more to kissing than two lips meeting and by the end of this course, you’ll be an expert on the history of kissing, the latest scientific research, dozens of sexy kissing tips and techniques, games, positions, places to kiss and you’ll discover what your kissing style says about you. Now pucker up for the ultimate kissing experience.

More Details About Becoming a Certified Kisser -

https://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=23